30. It’s okay if you don’t have your life all figured out
So you’re 29 1/2 and don’t have your life mapped out; or you don’t know what your passion is; or your “passions” change every Monday morning? No big deal. Having your life all figured out by -insert arbitrary age here- is not a recognised milestone in human development. Continue to explore things that pique your interest.
29. Life goes wrong sometimes
Things don’t always go according to plan. Murphy loves to ruin a good party so if he shows up, be prepared to modify or try a new strategy.
28. You don’t have to learn everything through personal experience
Yeah, they say experience is the greatest teacher but it’s okay to take a shortcut and learn from the experiences of others. Life is too short to make ALL the mistakes ourselves.
27. A bad relationship in your 20s is not the end of the world
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True story: Dating a loser is a humbling experience, especially if you took a long time to see the light. You might even cringe a little as you look back and wonder what the heck you were thinking but hey, at least you got out of it and now you’re wiser because of it.
26. A broken heart is the worst feeling but time heals
So you got your heart broken and it hurts! It will heal. In the meantime, guard your heart and care for it.
25. Ask for help when you need it
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It’s okay to say you don’t know how to do something, or that you need help. Don’t expect people to read your mind.
24. Some people won’t like you for the strangest reasons, or for no reason at all
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Some people will dislike you for no reason at all. Don’t make their issues your problem.
23. Apparently, 6 ÷ 2 (1+2) does not = 1
Answer = 9. Mind = Blown. Math was never my fave subject anyway.
22. Procrastination is the thief of time
I’ve convinced myself that I perform better under the pressure of a looming deadline but in reality, when I procrastinate I have nothing to show for the hours wasted. Our time is finite. Make the most of each day. Checklists help.
21. Adopt an Attitude of Gratitude
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On bad days it’s easy to start an internal pity party but an attitude of gratitude reminds us that we have a lot to be thankful for. Each day we have life is a blessing.
20. Rejection is part of life
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Don’t let people’s rejection of you diminish your view of yourself. Their failure to recognise your value is not a reflection of your worth.
19. You don’t have to win every argument
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A gentle answer defuses anger. Sometimes the relationship is more important than winning the argument.
18. Reject labels and don’t apologize for who you are
Be unapologetically you – less than perfect, a little nutty, whatever. Own your quirks.
17. Don’t be wrong and strong
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Own your mistakes and errors. Learn to graciously accept constructive criticism.
16. Go with your gut*
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Trust your instincts. You know that fleeting thought that pops into our heads when it’s decision making time? In my experience, it’s usually right.
*CAUTION: Not to be confused with following your heart. When it comes to matters of the heart, we tend to drown/dismiss the fleeting gut feelings.
15. Love is a verb
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Give love. Show love. Learn to discern true love – pay attention to what a person DOES. Not just what (s)he says.
14. Humility comes before honour
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Don’t sell yourself short but be prepared to pay your dues or go the extra mile. The right eyes will recognise your work’s worth.
13. Laughter is the best medicine
Few things make you feel better than a few good laughs with your BFFs. It’s good to be able to laugh at yourself too.
12. Honour your parents
They aren’t perfect; and sometimes they’re wrong. But loving, responsible parents that gave us the best foundation they could deserve our honour and respect.
11. Don’t run from change or challenges
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Our personal growth often comes out of changing circumstances or tough challenges. These help to build our character and help us to become better versions of ourselves.
10. Give back
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Volunteer. Mentor someone. You’ve been blessed to be a blessing. Pay it forward. Invest in another person’s life.
9. Choose to see the best in people and situations
8. Seek counsel (advice) from those you trust
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Sometimes an external perspective is exactly what we need to help us see a situation more clearly or to make a good decision. A wise person listens to good counsel.
7. Spend time nurturing and cherishing your relationships with family and friends
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Life is about relationships, and no man is an island. Make time for your family and friends. If you become too busy for them, step back and remember what’s important.
6. Life isn’t black and white. And it’s hella complicated
One mistake will probably not ruin your life. People will disappoint you at times. A seemingly “bad” person could have good qualities. A good boss could be a not-so-great parent, etc. Life is complicated. Welcome to adulting.
5. Don’t cling to a mistake just because you spent a lot of time making it
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Know when to cut your losses and let go.
4. Forgive quickly
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Forgive yourself for your mistakes and forgive the people that have offended or hurt you. Why? Because unforgiveness hurts us. Forgiveness heals.
3. Don’t fear failure or the unknown. Calculate the risks then go for it!
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Grab the opportunities that pop up. Enter the doors that open for you. Don’t let the reason you didn’t try something be because you were afraid.
2. Nothing you do can earn God’s love. Nothing you do can make you lose His love
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There is grace for yesterday’s mistake; mercy for last night’s failure. – LeCrae
1. Life is an adventure
Take the leap. Try something new.
The characters in any good book or movie plot experience highs and lows, hills and valleys. Enjoy the ride! Don’t waste time comparing your life with others’ lives. Focus on being the protagonist of your original story.